Saturday, January 10, 2009

Vent

Let me vent. This will only take a second. First of all, I'm sick of crap parents. I'm not even talking about the not-really-there kind of parents either. No. This is a breed of its own. My whole week has been dedicated to about two cases, all complicated by awful people that somehow get the privilege of being called parents. Forcing their children to watch pornography. Having sex right in front of their kids. Even doing sexual things with them. The list, amazingly and disturbingly enough, just goes on. Also, back in June, I found out that a resident had been molesting a younger child in placement. The victim suffered from post traumatic stress , and had to be moved to a different environment to address his mental health issues. The perp went to detention, but is back now. And he is being placed in the same unit as his victim, who still suffers from mental health issues as a result of the abuse that occurred in my program. What!?!? How could the victim be expected to live under the same roof as his abuser? Now, granted, they are being kept relatively separated. But they see one another from across the room. They pass in the hallway. I don't think this is okay. At all. But when I speak up I am reminded I have no say in the matter. And for whatever reason, I am continuously reminded that the victim has perped before too. This is no excuse. No justification. I am disgusted. And because I told you this would only take a minute, I'm done now.

3 comments:

David said...

Nate, how you manage to not run from work screaming "AAAAGGGGGHHHHHHH" every couple of minutes is truly amazing to me.

If 'the system' had just 1% as much integrity, imagine how great the world would be. Keep shining Jesus' light in all you do, no matter how futile it seems sometimes...

Mommy pfohl said...

I just am so angered by decisions that are made. You truly are the light of Jesus those kids need. I pray fou you often. hang in there.

Sue said...

Nate,

I truly don't know what to say...

There was something I read earlier...I thought it was in one of my devotionals, but I can't find it. It was something about justice. That is something that always strikes a chord deep within me. When I hear of things like you just described, the part of me that screams, "this is so wrong" takes over. But the devotional reminded me that even though it seems that God is not doleing out justice how and when we think He should, He still has control of the WHOLE picture. One time I read (or heard) the analogy of the tapestry. You know how the underside of it looks kinda jumbled and undone? Well, that is the part we are looking at whereas God is looking at the front. Does that make any sense? Anyway, like Mindy said, you are the light of Jesus that those kids need. I will be praying that God continues to use you there and also that your heart and spirit are comforted by Him...